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200 Epictetus Quotes: Timeless Lines of Stoic Wisdom

These epictetus quotes gather 200 verified lines from the Stoic philosopher Epictetus (c. 50–135 AD) — drawn from the Enchiridion, the Discourses as recorded by his student Arrian, and the surviving fragments. Born into slavery in Hierapolis and later freed in Rome, Epictetus taught that while we cannot control events, we can always control our judgments about them. Every line below is sourced from public-domain translations; widely-circulating disputed lines carry an “Attributed to” label.

epictetus quotes — men are disturbed not by things, but by the views they take of things
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  1. Epictetus Quotes on On What You Control
  2. Epictetus Quotes on On Perspective and Judgment
  3. Epictetus Quotes on On Desire and Contentment
  4. Epictetus Quotes on On Adversity and Resilience
  5. Epictetus Quotes on On Character and Integrity
  6. Epictetus Quotes on On Humility and Learning
  7. Epictetus Quotes on On Freedom
  8. Epictetus Quotes on On Relationships and Kindness
  9. Epictetus Quotes on On Living Deliberately
  10. Famous Epictetus Quotes and Fragments
  11. Frequently Asked Questions
  12. Editor’s Picks
  13. More Quotes to Explore

Epictetus Quotes on On What You Control

  1. There are things which are within our power, and there are things which are beyond our power. — Epictetus
  2. Within our power are opinion, aim, desire, aversion, and, in one word, whatever affairs are our own. — Epictetus
  3. Beyond our power are body, property, reputation, office, and, in one word, whatever are not properly our own affairs. — Epictetus
  4. Now the things within our power are by nature free, unrestricted, unhindered; but those beyond our power are weak, dependent, restricted, alien. — Epictetus
  5. Seek at once, therefore, to be able to say to every unpleasing semblance, “You are but a semblance and by no means the real thing.” — Epictetus
  6. Remove [the habit of] aversion, then, from all things that are not within our power, and apply it to things undesirable which are within our power. — Epictetus
  7. Where it is practically necessary for you to pursue or avoid anything, do even this with discretion and gentleness and moderation. — Epictetus
  8. Demand not that events should happen as you wish; but wish them to happen as they do happen, and you will go on well. — Epictetus
  9. Whoever then would be free, let him wish nothing, let him decline nothing, which depends on others; else he must necessarily be a slave. — Epictetus
  10. A man’s master is he who is able to confer or remove whatever that man seeks or shuns. — Epictetus
  11. If you wish not to be disappointed in your desires, that is in your own power. Exercise, therefore, what is in your power. — Epictetus
  12. You can be unconquerable if you enter into no combat in which it is not in your own power to conquer. — Epictetus
  13. But, for your part, do not desire to be a general, or a senator, or a consul, but to be free; and the only way to this is a disregard of things which lie not within our own power. — Epictetus
  14. Of the things which are, God has put some of them in our power, and some he has not. — Epictetus
  15. In our own power he has placed that which is the best and the most important, that indeed through which he himself is happy, the use of appearances. — Epictetus
  16. For when this use is rightly employed, there is freedom, happiness, tranquillity, constancy. — Epictetus
  17. If you would have anything good, receive it from yourself. — Epictetus
  18. When then the pursuit of objects and the avoiding of them are in your power, what else do you care for? — Epictetus
  19. He is free who lives as he wishes to live; who is neither subject to compulsion nor to hindrance, nor to force. — Epictetus
  20. If I feel that all these things do not concern me, he does not threaten me at all; but if I fear any of them, it is I whom he threatens. — Epictetus

Epictetus Quotes on On Perspective and Judgment

  1. Men are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of things. — Epictetus
  2. Thus death is nothing terrible, else it would have appeared so to Socrates. But the terror consists in our notion of death, that it is terrible. — Epictetus
  3. When, therefore, we are hindered or disturbed, or grieved, let us never impute it to others, but to ourselves—that is, to our own views. — Epictetus
  4. It is the action of an uninstructed person to reproach others for his own misfortunes; of one entering upon instruction, to reproach himself; and one perfectly instructed, to reproach neither others nor himself. — Epictetus
  5. Never say of anything, “I have lost it,” but, “I have restored it.” — Epictetus
  6. While he permits you to possess it, hold it as something not your own, as do travelers at an inn. — Epictetus
  7. “What hurts this man is not this occurrence itself—for another man might not be hurt by it—but the view he chooses to take of it.” — Epictetus
  8. Remember that it is not he who gives abuse or blows, who affronts, but the view we take of these things as insulting. — Epictetus
  9. When, therefore, anyone provokes you, be assured that it is your own opinion which provokes you. — Epictetus
  10. Try, therefore, in the first place, not to be bewildered by appearances. For if you once gain time and respite, you will more easily command yourself. — Epictetus
  11. Everything has two handles: one by which it may be borne, another by which it cannot. — Epictetus
  12. If your brother acts unjustly, do not lay hold on the affair by the handle of his injustice, for by that it cannot be borne, but rather by the opposite—that he is your brother, that he was brought up with you. — Epictetus
  13. When any person does ill by you, or speaks ill of you, remember that he acts or speaks from an impression that it is right for him to do so. — Epictetus
  14. Setting out, then, from these principles, you will meekly bear with a person who reviles you, for you will say upon every occasion, “It seemed so to him.” — Epictetus
  15. Does anyone bathe hastily? Do not say that he does it ill, but hastily. Does anyone drink much wine? Do not say that he does ill, but that he drinks a great deal. — Epictetus
  16. For unless you perfectly understand his motives, how should you know if he acts ill? — Epictetus
  17. It should be always remembered how we are affected on hearing the same thing concerning others. — Epictetus
  18. Appearances are to us in four ways. For either things are as they appear to be; or they neither are nor appear to be; or they are and do not appear to be; or they are not and yet appear to be. — Epictetus
  19. If it is the persuasion of appearances, by which we are deceived, we must meet it with the remedy. — Epictetus
  20. Whoever are least disturbed in mind by calamities, and in act struggle most against them, these are the best men in states and in private life. — Epictetus
epictetus quotes on self-mastery
No man is free who is not master of himself.

Epictetus Quotes on On Desire and Contentment

  1. Remember that desire demands the attainment of that of which you are desirous; and aversion demands the avoidance of that to which you are averse. — Epictetus
  2. If, then, you shun only those undesirable things which you can control, you will never incur anything which you shun. — Epictetus
  3. But for the present, altogether restrain desire; for if you desire any of the things not within our own power, you must necessarily be disappointed. — Epictetus
  4. Remember that you must behave as at a banquet. Is anything brought round to you? Put out your hand and take a moderate share. Does it pass by you? Do not stop it. — Epictetus
  5. Is it not yet come? Do not yearn in desire toward it, but wait till it reaches you. — Epictetus
  6. Epictetus being asked, What man is rich, answered, He who is content (who has enough). — Epictetus
  7. Fortify yourself with contentment, for this is an impregnable fortress. — Epictetus
  8. Contentment, as it is a short road and pleasant, has great delight and little trouble. — Epictetus
  9. It is not poverty which produces sorrow, but desire; nor does wealth release from fear, but reason. — Epictetus
  10. If then you acquire this power of reasoning, you will neither desire wealth nor complain of poverty. — Epictetus
  11. Examine yourself whether you wish to be rich or to be happy. If you wish to be rich, you should know that it is neither a good thing nor at all in your power. — Epictetus
  12. Wealth is not one of the good things; great expenditure is one of the bad; moderation is one of the good things. — Epictetus
  13. It is difficult then for a rich man to be moderate, or for a moderate man to be rich. — Epictetus
  14. As it is better to lie compressed in a narrow bed and be healthy than to be tossed with disease on a broad couch, so also it is better to contract yourself within a small competence and to be happy than to have a great fortune and to be wretched. — Epictetus
  15. No man who loves money, and loves pleasure, and loves fame, also loves mankind, but only he who loves virtue. — Epictetus
  16. Let the measure to you of all food and drink be the first satisfying of the desire. — Epictetus
  17. A man should choose (pursue) not every pleasure, but the pleasure which leads to the good. — Epictetus
  18. It is the part of a wise man to resist pleasures, but of a foolish man to be a slave to them. — Epictetus
  19. Choose rather to punish your appetites than to be punished through them. — Epictetus
  20. We ought to stretch our legs and stretch our hopes only to that which is possible. — Epictetus

Epictetus Quotes on On Adversity and Resilience

  1. Sickness is an impediment to the body, but not to the will unless itself pleases. — Epictetus
  2. Lameness is an impediment to the leg, but not to the will; and say this to yourself with regard to everything that happens. — Epictetus
  3. For you will find it to be an impediment to something else, but not truly to yourself. — Epictetus
  4. Upon every accident, remember to turn toward yourself and inquire what faculty you have for its use. — Epictetus
  5. If you encounter a handsome person, you will find continence the faculty needed; if pain, then fortitude; if reviling, then patience. — Epictetus
  6. And when thus habituated, the phenomena of existence will not overwhelm you. — Epictetus
  7. It is circumstances (difficulties) which show what men are. — Epictetus
  8. Therefore when a difficulty falls upon you, remember that God, like a trainer of wrestlers, has matched you with a rough young man. — Epictetus
  9. Why, that you may become an Olympic conqueror; but it is not accomplished without sweat. — Epictetus
  10. In my opinion no man has had a more profitable difficulty than you have had, if you choose to make use of it as an athlete would deal with a young antagonist. — Epictetus
  11. Let death and exile, and all other things which appear terrible, be daily before your eyes, but death chiefly; and you will never entertain an abject thought, nor too eagerly covet anything. — Epictetus
  12. Nothing great, said Epictetus, is produced suddenly, since not even the grape or the fig is. — Epictetus
  13. If you say to me now that you want a fig, I will answer to you that it requires time: let it flower first, then put forth fruit, and then ripen. — Epictetus
  14. Those who have been instructed, like those who have been trained in the palaestra, though they may have fallen, rise again from their misfortune quickly and skilfully. — Epictetus
  15. We ought to call in reason like a good physician as a help in misfortune. — Epictetus
  16. He who bears in mind what man is will never be troubled at any thing which happens. — Epictetus
  17. Be free from grief not through insensibility like the irrational animals, nor through want of thought like the foolish, but like a man of virtue by having reason as the consolation of grief. — Epictetus
  18. If you wish to live a life free from sorrow, think of what is going to happen as if it had already happened. — Epictetus
  19. Time relieves the foolish from sorrow, but reason relieves the wise. — Epictetus
  20. As it is pleasant to see the sea from the land, so it is pleasant for him who has escaped from troubles to think of them. — Epictetus
epictetus quotes on accepting events
Wish events to happen as they do happen.

Epictetus Quotes on On Character and Integrity

  1. Be content, then, in everything, with being a philosopher; and if you wish to seem so likewise to anyone, appear so to yourself, and it will suffice you. — Epictetus
  2. When you do anything from a clear judgment that it ought to be done, never shrink from being seen to do it, even though the world should misunderstand it. — Epictetus
  3. For if you are not acting rightly, shun the action itself; if you are, why fear those who wrongly censure you? — Epictetus
  4. Never proclaim yourself a philosopher, nor make much talk among the ignorant about your principles, but show them by actions. — Epictetus
  5. For sheep do not hastily throw up the grass to show the shepherds how much they have eaten, but, inwardly digesting their food, they produce it outwardly in wool and milk. — Epictetus
  6. Be mostly silent, or speak merely what is needful, and in few words. — Epictetus
  7. Let not your laughter be loud, frequent, or abundant. — Epictetus
  8. If anyone tells you that a certain person speaks ill of you, do not make excuses about what is said of you, but answer: “He was ignorant of my other faults, else he would not have mentioned these alone.” — Epictetus
  9. In company, avoid a frequent and excessive mention of your own actions and dangers. — Epictetus
  10. When you have learned to nourish your body frugally, do not pique yourself upon it. — Epictetus
  11. If you have assumed any character beyond your strength, you have both demeaned yourself ill in that and quitted one which you might have supported. — Epictetus
  12. As in walking you take care not to tread upon a nail, or turn your foot, so likewise take care not to hurt the ruling faculty of your mind. — Epictetus
  13. This instant, then, think yourself worthy of living as a man grown up and a proficient. — Epictetus
  14. Let whatever appears to be the best be to you an inviolable law. — Epictetus
  15. Thus Socrates became perfect, improving himself by everything, following reason alone. — Epictetus
  16. Whatever rules you have adopted, abide by them as laws, and as if you would be impious to transgress them. — Epictetus
  17. Deliberate much before saying or doing anything, for you will not have the power of recalling what has been said or done. — Epictetus
  18. What we ought not to do, we should not even think of doing. — Epictetus
  19. Let nothing be valued more than truth. — Epictetus
  20. Truth is a thing immortal and perpetual, and it gives to us a beauty which fades not away in time. — Epictetus

Epictetus Quotes on On Humility and Learning

  1. Be not elated at any excellence not your own. — Epictetus
  2. What then is your own? The use of the phenomena of existence. — Epictetus
  3. If you would improve, be content to be thought foolish and dull with regard to externals. — Epictetus
  4. Do not desire to be thought to know anything; and though you should appear to others to be somebody, distrust yourself. — Epictetus
  5. If you have an earnest desire toward philosophy, prepare yourself from the very first to have the multitude laugh and sneer. — Epictetus
  6. For remember that, if you are persistent, those very persons who at first ridiculed will afterwards admire you. — Epictetus
  7. The condition and characteristic of a philosopher is that he looks to himself for all help or harm. — Epictetus
  8. The marks of a proficient are that he censures no one, praises no one, blames no one, accuses no one. — Epictetus
  9. He keeps watch over himself as over an enemy and one in ambush. — Epictetus
  10. When anyone shows himself vain on being able to understand and interpret the works of Chrysippus, say to yourself: “Unless Chrysippus had written obscurely, this person would have had nothing to be vain of.” — Epictetus
  11. If you wish to be good, first believe that you are bad. — Epictetus
  12. It is better to do wrong seldom and to own it, and to act right for the most part, than seldom to admit that you have done wrong and to do wrong often. — Epictetus
  13. Check (punish) your passions, that you may not be punished by them. — Epictetus
  14. Do not so much be ashamed of that (disgrace) which proceeds from men’s opinion as fly from that which comes from the truth. — Epictetus
  15. If you wish to be well spoken of, learn to speak well (of others) and when you have learned to speak well of them, try to act well. — Epictetus
  16. Examine in three ways him who is talking with you, as superior, or as inferior, or as equal: and if he is superior, you should listen to him and be convinced by him. — Epictetus
  17. It is better by assenting to truth to conquer opinion, than by assenting to opinion to be conquered by truth. — Epictetus
  18. If you seek truth, you will not seek by every means to gain a victory; and if you have found truth, you will have the gain of not being defeated. — Epictetus
  19. A man ought to know that it is not easy for him to have an opinion (or fixed principle), if he does not daily say the same things, and hear the same things, and at the same time apply them to life. — Epictetus
  20. Attempt on every occasion to provide for nothing so much as that which is safe: for silence is safer than speaking. — Epictetus
epictetus quotes on humility
Be content to be thought foolish and dull.

Epictetus Quotes on On Freedom

  1. No man is free who is not master of himself. — Epictetus
  2. For no man is a slave who is free in his will. — Epictetus
  3. For he who is loose (free) in the body, but bound in the soul is a slave: but on the contrary he who is bound in the body, but free (unbound) in the soul, is free. — Epictetus
  4. The bond of the body is loosened by nature through death, and by vice through money: but the bond of the soul is loosened by learning, and by experience and by discipline. — Epictetus
  5. Whoever you are who wish to be not among the number of slaves, release yourself from slavery: and you will be free, if you are released from desire. — Epictetus
  6. It is better to live with one free man and to be without fear and free, than to be a slave with many. — Epictetus
  7. What you avoid suffering, do not attempt to make others suffer. You avoid slavery: take care that others are not your slaves. — Epictetus
  8. Freedom and slavery, the one is the name of virtue, and the other of vice: and both are acts of the will. — Epictetus
  9. As the sun does not wait for prayers and incantations to be induced to rise, but immediately shines and is saluted by all so do you also not wait for clappings of hands, and shouts and praise to be induced to do good. — Epictetus
  10. Neither should a ship rely on one small anchor, nor should life rest on a single hope. — Epictetus
  11. When I see a man anxious, I say, What does this man want? If he did not want something which is not in his power, how could he be anxious? — Epictetus
  12. If then the things which are independent of the will are neither good nor bad, and all things which do depend on the will are within our power, and no man can either take them from us or give them to us, if we do not choose, where is room left for anxiety? — Epictetus
  13. Philosophy does not propose to secure for a man any external thing. — Epictetus
  14. For as the carpenter’s material is wood, and that of the statuary is copper, so the matter of the art of living is each man’s life. — Epictetus
  15. He is unreasonable who is grieved (troubled) at the things which happen from the necessity of nature. — Epictetus
  16. He who is dissatisfied with things present and what is given by fortune is an ignorant man in life: but he who bears them nobly and rationally and the things which proceed from them is worthy of being considered a good man. — Epictetus
  17. To the longer life and the worse, the shorter life, if it is better, ought by all means to be preferred. — Epictetus
  18. It is more necessary to heal the soul than the body, for to die is better than to live a bad life. — Epictetus
  19. Every place is safe to him who lives with justice. — Epictetus
  20. You ought to choose both physician and friend not the most agreeable, but the most useful. — Epictetus

Epictetus Quotes on On Relationships and Kindness

  1. With regard to whatever objects either delight the mind or contribute to use or are tenderly beloved, remind yourself of what nature they are, beginning with the merest trifles. — Epictetus
  2. Duties are universally measured by relations. Is a certain man your father? In this are implied taking care of him, submitting to him in all things, patiently receiving his reproaches, his correction. — Epictetus
  3. Is a brother unjust? Well, preserve your own just relation toward him. — Epictetus
  4. Consider not what he does, but what you are to do to keep your own will in a state conformable to nature, for another cannot hurt you unless you please. — Epictetus
  5. You will then be hurt when you consent to be hurt. — Epictetus
  6. When you see anyone weeping for grief, either that his son has gone abroad or that he has suffered in his affairs, take care not to be overcome by the apparent evil. — Epictetus
  7. As far as conversation goes, however, do not disdain to accommodate yourself to him and, if need be, to groan with him. Take heed, however, not to groan inwardly, too. — Epictetus
  8. Instead of an herd of oxen, endeavour to assemble herds of friends in your house. — Epictetus
  9. As a wolf resembles a dog, so both a flatterer, and an adulterer and a parasite, resemble a friend. — Epictetus
  10. In prosperity it is very easy to find a friend; but in adversity it is most difficult of all things. — Epictetus
  11. The necessity of circumstances proves friends and detects enemies. — Epictetus
  12. When our friends are present, we ought to treat them well; and when they are absent, to speak of them well. — Epictetus
  13. Let no man think that he is loved by any man when he loves no man. — Epictetus
  14. We ought to avoid the friendship of the bad and the enmity of the good. — Epictetus
  15. Nothing is smaller (meaner) than love of pleasure, and love of gain and pride. Nothing is superior to magnanimity, and gentleness, and love of mankind, and beneficence. — Epictetus
  16. To admonish is better than to reproach: for admonition is mild and friendly, but reproach is harsh and insulting. — Epictetus
  17. Give of what you have to strangers and to those who have need: for he who gives not to him who wants, will not receive himself when he wants. — Epictetus
  18. A man took clothing and gave it to him, and brought the pirate into his house, and supplied him with every thing else that was necessary. When the man was reproached by a person for doing kindness to the bad, he replied, I have shown this regard not to the man, but to mankind. — Epictetus
  19. Pittacus after being wronged by a certain person and having the power of punishing him let him go, saying, Forgiveness is better than revenge. — Epictetus
  20. Epictetus being asked how a man should give pain to his enemy answered, By preparing himself to live the best life that he can. — Epictetus
epictetus quotes on adversity
Difficulties show what men are.

Epictetus Quotes on On Living Deliberately

  1. When you set about any action, remind yourself of what nature the action is. — Epictetus
  2. In every affair consider what precedes and what follows, and then undertake it. — Epictetus
  3. You must be one man, either good or bad. You must cultivate either your own reason or else externals. — Epictetus
  4. Remember that you are an actor in a drama of such sort as the Author chooses—if short, then in a short one; if long, then in a long one. — Epictetus
  5. For this is your business—to act well the given part, but to choose it belongs to another. — Epictetus
  6. For whatsoever happens, it belongs to me to derive advantage therefrom. — Epictetus
  7. As in a voyage, when the ship is at anchor, if you go on shore to get water, you may amuse yourself with picking up a shellfish or a truffle in your way, but your thoughts ought to be bent toward the ship. — Epictetus
  8. The body is to everyone the proper measure of its possessions, as the foot is of the shoe. — Epictetus
  9. If, therefore, you stop at this, you will keep the measure; but if you move beyond it, you must necessarily be carried forward, as down a precipice. — Epictetus
  10. It is a mark of want of intellect to spend much time in things relating to the body, as to be immoderate in exercises, in eating and drinking. — Epictetus
  11. Choose the best life, for custom (habit) will make it pleasant. — Epictetus
  12. Nothing really pleasant or unpleasant subsists by nature, but all things become so through habit (custom). — Epictetus
  13. The life which is implicated with fortune (depends on fortune) is like a winter torrent: for it is turbulent, and full of mud, and difficult to cross, and tyrannical, and noisy, and of short duration. — Epictetus
  14. A soul which is conversant with virtue is like an ever flowing source, for it is pure and tranquil and potable and sweet and communicative (social), and rich and harmless and free from mischief. — Epictetus
  15. If you had been born among the Persians, you would not have wished to live in Hellas (Greece), but to have lived in Persia happy: so if you are born in poverty, why do you seek to grow rich, and why do you not remain in poverty and be happy? — Epictetus
  16. You will do the greatest services to the state, if you shall raise not the roofs of the houses, but the souls of the citizens. — Epictetus
  17. Do not decorate the walls of your house with the valuable stones from Euboea and Sparta; but adorn the minds (breasts) of the citizens with the instruction which comes from Hellas (Greece). — Epictetus
  18. As a skilful horse-trainer does not feed (only) the good colts and allow to starve those who are disobedient to the rein, but he feeds both alike. — Epictetus
  19. As a multitude, when they without reason demand of you any thing of your own, do not disconcert you, so do not be moved from your purpose even by a rabble when they unjustly attempt to move you. — Epictetus
  20. As a goose is not frightened by cackling nor a sheep by bleating, so let not the clamour of a senseless multitude alarm you. — Epictetus

Famous Epictetus Quotes and Fragments

  1. He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has. — Epictetus
  2. Nature has given to men one tongue, but two ears, that we may hear from others twice as much as we speak. — Attributed to Epictetus
  3. Think of God more frequently than you breathe. — Epictetus
  4. If you always remember that whatever you are doing in the soul or in the body, God stands by as an inspector, you will never err (do wrong) in all your prayers and in all your acts. — Epictetus
  5. Let your talk of God be renewed every day, rather than your food. — Epictetus
  6. When Thales was asked what is most universal, he answered, Hope, for hope stays with those who have nothing else. — Epictetus
  7. You are a little soul carrying a dead body, as Epictetus said. — Epictetus
  8. When a young man was boasting in the theatre and saying, I am wise, for I have conversed with many wise men; Epictetus said, I also have conversed with many rich men, but I am not rich. — Epictetus
  9. Be careful to leave your sons well instructed rather than rich, for the hopes of the instructed are better than the wealth of the ignorant. — Epictetus
  10. The value of education (knowledge) like that of gold is valued in every place. — Epictetus
  11. Nothing among animals is so beautiful as a man adorned by learning (knowledge). — Epictetus
  12. If you wish your house to be well managed, imitate the Spartan Lycurgus. For as he did not fence his city with walls, but fortified the inhabitants by virtue and preserved the city always free. — Epictetus
  13. If you propose to adorn your city by the dedication of offerings (monuments), first dedicate to yourself (decorate yourself with) the noblest offering of gentleness, and justice and beneficence. — Epictetus
  14. As if you were begotten or born in a ship, you would not be eager to be the master of it, so—. For neither there (in the ship) will the ship naturally be connected with you, nor wealth in the other case; but reason is every where naturally connected with you. — Epictetus
  15. Neither is a horse elated nor proud of his manger and trappings and coverings, nor a bird of his little shreds of cloth and of his nest but both of them are proud of their swiftness. — Epictetus
  16. Do you also then not be greatly proud of your food and dress and, in short, of any external things, but be proud of your integrity and good deeds. — Epictetus
  17. To live well differs from living extravagantly: for the first comes from moderation and a sufficiency and good order and propriety and frugality. — Epictetus
  18. If you wish to live withont perturbation and with pleasure, try to have all who dwell with you good. — Epictetus
  19. Of pleasures those which occur most rarely give the greatest delight. — Epictetus
  20. When we are children our parents deliver us to a paedagogue to take care on all occasions that we suffer no harm. But when we are become men, God delivers us to our innate conscience to take care of us. — Epictetus
epictetus quotes on gratitude
Rejoice for those things which you have.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who was Epictetus?

Epictetus (c. 50–135 AD) was a Greek Stoic philosopher born into slavery in Hierapolis, Phrygia. After gaining his freedom in Rome, he studied under Musonius Rufus and later founded his own school in Nicopolis, Greece. He wrote nothing himself; his teachings were recorded by his student Arrian in the Discourses and the Enchiridion (Handbook).

What is Epictetus most famous for saying?

His most famous line is “Men are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of things” (Enchiridion 5) — the foundation of Stoic psychology. Other beloved epictetus quotes include “No man is free who is not master of himself” and “Demand not that events should happen as you wish; but wish them to happen as they do happen.”

What is the Enchiridion?

The Enchiridion (Greek for “handbook” or “dagger”) is a short manual of Stoic advice compiled by Arrian from Epictetus’s Discourses. Its 53 brief chapters cover the dichotomy of control, desire, adversity, and character — and it has been a practical guide to resilience for nearly two thousand years.

Are these Epictetus quotes authentic?

Every quote in this collection is drawn verbatim from public-domain English translations of the Enchiridion, the Discourses, and the fragments preserved by Stobaeus and others. One widely-circulating line (“two ears, one mouth”) is marked “Attributed to Epictetus” because scholars trace it to Zeno rather than Epictetus himself.

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There are things which are within our power, and there are things which are beyond our power. — EpictetusDaily inspiration
If you wish not to be disappointed in your desires, that is in your own power. Exercise, therefore, what is in your power. — EpictetusOn control
Men are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of things. — EpictetusOn perspective
Contentment, as it is a short road and pleasant, has great delight and little trouble. — EpictetusOn contentment
It is circumstances (difficulties) which show what men are. — EpictetusOn resilience
If anyone tells you that a certain person speaks ill of you, do not make excuses about what is said of you, but answer: “He was ignorant of my other faults, else he would not have mentioned these alone.” — EpictetusOn integrity
If you would improve, be content to be thought foolish and dull with regard to externals. — EpictetusOn humility
No man is free who is not master of himself. — EpictetusOn freedom
In prosperity it is very easy to find a friend; but in adversity it is most difficult of all things. — EpictetusOn kindness
Remember that you are an actor in a drama of such sort as the Author chooses—if short, then in a short one; if long, then in a long one. — EpictetusOn deliberate living
He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has. — EpictetusMost famous

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